LoseThisGainThat

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runforskyrim:

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lord-kitschener:

thatdudedevin:

No. You had sex with a girl when you were a child. It ended in pregnancy. You are attacking the morality of a 14 year old girl who terminated a pregnancy that would have resulted in a child that neither you or her had the capacity to care for. A girl that preserved your and her own youth, and stopped a child being raised in circumstances that are not fit for any child. You really should be assessing your own morality. What kind of 14 year old boy fucks a 14 year old girl, without protection, gets her pregnant and then runs an online smear campaign against her for doing what was best for her, her family and you? What? You think you had the capacity to raise a child at age 14/15? How would you feed it or look after it? You wouldn’t. You were going to dump it on her or your own parents, live like the carefree little shit you are and occasionally play with the child when you could be bothered and think “Wow, what a good, brave young father I am.” You made the mistake, she went through the trauma of saving your youth for you. You owe her so much better than this. You absolutely disgust me. Less than forward-slash three, you’re real fucking remorseful. That’s poetry that is. You’re breaking my heart kid. That girl should have every right to decide what she wants to do to her body. The idea that you should take responsibility and give birth implies that you are responsible to this fetus and you owe it something. A pregnant person does not owe a fetus anything any more than they owe you an apology for being alive. Try again, pro lifers. Pro-Choice.

Nailed it. 

Also, I’m pretty sure it would have been “our son” oh wait, right, the Incubatory Unit doesn’t count. 

Seriously, shut the fuck up ^^
Sure, they’re young but there are other options rather than abortion! Adoption, foster care, parents and family may be able to look after the child.
Don’t be so quick to judge his life because all you know is his age, please.
And also, does anybody care about his choice in the abortion? Parenting is a 2 way thing and I think everybody forgets about the fathers say in everything.
Moral of the story; don’t be so fucking quick to judge.

Whether he wants the child or not, it is not his body, and that isn’t his choice. She didn’t want the child (she’s still a child herself!), and that is her choice. HER body. Pregnancy is a bitch, and childbirth is a bitch. They aren’t fun or easy things to do, and it certainly isn’t anyone else’s choice as to what she does. 

Pro-Choice, because YOU get rights to YOUR body, and I, mine. If you want to keep it, do it. If you don’t, don’t.

But it’s his kid too! Don’t get me wrong, I do see what you mean BUT if you were the male in this position and you wanted to take the responsibility how shit would it be to have it taken away from you! She contributed to the foolish decision of having sex and not using protection and she needs to deal with some of those responsibilities. Why is the male always neglected in these situations? If the mother wanted the baby but the father didn’t how is that ok but it’s not the other way around? It’s her body? Yes, but it’s THEIR child.

Because as a fourteen year old boy, he has the chance to leave her at any moment. Like any man, of any age, he can leave, and pay child support from as far away as he likes. She is stuck with it. I don’t agree with a lot of custody fights, but in situations like this, it’s all on the mother. She has to fight for this child, and with the ways laws are, he can leave. It’s how it is, and it sucks.

HOWEVER, WARNING, OPINION; I don’t think any child under eighteen should be allowed to keep the baby. I’ve seen situations where everything turned out dandy, but you’re taking a huge risk financially, emotionally, etc.

She doesn’t have to keep the baby though, this case isn’a about him leaving or paying child support. He wanted the baby and even though it was her body, after 9 short months she can have it back to herself and let the father raise the child for 18 years. 9 months is nothing compared to the responsibility he WANTED to take for 18 years.
But that’s not all I’m saying, my other point is that there are other options rather than abortion which means that child’s life didn’t have to end. That’s what frustrates me about this most.

I understand youre saying that the father should have a say in this, but ultimately its the mothers decision. Its not ‘just 9 months’. Nine months of hell, then the birthing that could kill the mother. Then post partum depression could kill the mother. Theres so many complications that could arise physically for the mother. For the father, is he subjected to basically an unwanted parasite draining him physically? Nope. He should have a voice, but not the final decision.

fuckfat-beslim:

31 july 1947 – 29 march 2013
Goodbye Uncle Vernon.
Thanks for everything. Potterheads all over the world.

thank you so much for everything. so sad

Source: snaping

We enter a little coffeehouse with a friend of mine and give our order. While we’re aproaching our table two people come in and they go to the counter:
‘Five coffees, please. Two of them for us and three suspended’ They pay for their order, take the two and leave.

I ask my friend: “What are those ‘suspended’ coffees?”
My friend: “Wait for it and you will see.”

Some more people enter. Two girls ask for one coffee each, pay and go. The next order was for seven coffees and it was made by three lawyers - three for them and four ‘suspended’. While I still wonder what’s the deal with those ‘suspended’ coffees I enjoy the sunny weather and the beautiful view towards the square infront of the café. Suddenly a man dressed in shabby clothes who looks like a beggar comes in throught the door and kindly asks
‘Do you have a suspended coffee ?’

It’s simple - people pay in advance for a coffee meant for someone who can not afford a warm bevarage. The tradition with the suspended coffees started in Naples, but it has spread all over the world and in some places you can order not only a suspended coffee, but also a sandwitch or a whole meal.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to have such cafés or even grocery stores in every town where the less fortunate will find hope and support ? If you own a business why don’t you offer it to your clients… I am sure many of them will like it.

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